Astro Musings: Venus' Seduction vs. Jupiter's Expansion
The Secret Behind Aligning Your Life and Attracting Your (Right) Man
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I've said it before, and I'll say it again: you can't fix your man by nagging or begging him to change, and you can’t find the right man by searching for him, or even by being the most beautiful woman. If you’ve ever wondered why a relationship has never worked out for you, despite all of your efforts, why you can’t seem to manifest that masculine provider, or why your body might reject the men you give your time and energy to, it all begins with understanding the magic of Jupiter.
Your man isn't someone out there in the world. He's actually a reflection of something deep inside of you. More specifically, a reflection of the relationship you have with the crown chakra — your inner divinity. And if you're not in tune with that part of yourself, you'll never attract the right kind of love into your life. That's where Jupiter comes in. When you start living in alignment with your true essence, that's when the magic happens.
In today's society, it might feel hard to avoid attracting noncommittal individuals, but it's truly not. You’re just approaching it the wrong way. This applies to all of us, whether you're currently in a relationship or not.
Astrologically, Jupiter represents more than just the keys to luck or fortune; it embodies our innate truth and wisdom. As the intermediary between the heavens and the earth, Jupiter serves as a symbol of inspiration, asking us to remember our authentic selves. Jupiter is telling us—”what are you gonna fight for?” This is the planet's role in guiding us toward a life aligned with our deepest values. However, realizing this potential requires a conscious examination of our habits and conditioning.
I know it can be so damn tempting to blame external factors for our unhappiness—the government, society, “soft guy era”, you name it. But the truth is, the power to change our lives is truly within us. Simply ask yourself, what is your willingness to let go of unhealthy habits and anything that no longer serves you?
When you start living authentically, that's when the right man will come into your life, not just any man — the best, princess treatment giving, provider and protector man you yearn for. You won't have to go searching for him because he'll be drawn to the light that shines from within you. He will be your Jupiter.
Live your best life, nurture aligned friendships, nurture your mind and body, and find fulfillment from within. Decenter him, and don't wait around for a man, even if you're already in a relationship or marriage. Live for you– and I assure you, he will be attracted to your rich inner world, and in return, will want to give you his best.
Venusian Seduction
No shade towards any of these creators; my message isn’t aimed at them specifically, I’m just using this popular Venus trend to make a point. While your Venus sign does enhance your physical attractiveness, don’t be alarmed that this also draws in individuals with low vibrational energies, as well as partners who use you for your body, beauty, or anything else they can exploit.
Venus and Jupiter are considered enemies. In terms of energy, one represents the external while the other embodies the internal. Since the world reflects what's within, the influence of the internal planet, Jupiter, prevails.
Consider the late Marilyn Monroe, she harnessed her Venusian energy to captivate the male gaze and propel herself to the top. However, she also struggled with deep depression, substance abuse, and endured so much mistreatment and betrayal from men, often finding herself in toxic relationships or used as an accessory/side piece. She serves as a strong symbol of the universal consequences of misusing the creative energy we possess within ourselves. And I must admit, I truly love looking my best, and being seductive ... I am a Scorpio after all. But, society has this idea that if you present yourself at your hottest, you'll automatically receive the best treatment from others, or even attract the most ideal partners. Umm no, this notion is extra flawed, as many beautiful women can attest to being mistreated or settling for less than they deserve despite having pretty privilege.
As long as society remains asleep to this wisdom, it perpetuates a cycle where men and women perceive each other as adversaries, which offers no real solution.
“My whole life has always depressed me.”
Marilyn Monroe
When Jupiter falters in bringing us the fulfillment we crave, we often turn to Venus, hoping it will fill the void. Yet, relying on Venus to mend Jupiter's shortcomings is like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole—it just doesn't fit, babe.
Jupiter represents the spark of our soul's desire to shine brightly on this earthly plane. It encourages us to be authentic and share our unique gifts with the world. When Jupiter is in harmony with our innermost selves, our aura exudes confidence and draws high vibrational energy into our lives.
Conversely, Venus, governs our relationships and interactions with the external world. While Venus adds sweetness to our lives through love, beauty, and pleasure, it simply cannot compensate for Jupiter's absence. When we lean too heavily on Venus to satisfy our desires, we fall into the trap of seeking validation from external sources.
Some may even find themselves slipping into roles of mothering or temptresses, hoping to win love and affection. However, true love cannot be coerced or won through acts of servitude or physical allure. It manifests when we embrace our true selves and live in alignment with our deepest desires.
So, how can we discern if Venus is overshadowing Jupiter in our lives? Look for signs such as placing excessive emphasis on outward appearances or seeking validation from others to feel worthy.
For example, my personal practice involves always looking my best, not for the male gaze or hoping for a relationship commitment. It's all about feeling my best for myself.
When you look good, you feel good. It’s very simple.
But when Venus overshadows Jupiter, we feel a lingering feeling of emptiness, leading us to chase fleeting pleasures in search of fulfillment.
The beautiful truth is we don't need external validation to lead a fulfilling life. Our happiness springs from within, from living authentically and expressing our creativity. When we follow our passions and honor our true essence, we radiate magnetic joy and naturally attract the right people effortlessly.
Instead of waiting for someone else to validate your existence, start living the life you were meant to live. The life you sacrificed for someone else, at some point along your journey; we’re all guilty of doing this. Celebrate your uniqueness and let your inner light shine brightly for all to see. Remember, you are not just some caretaker, a waitress, or a seductress—you are a radiant being with boundless potential.
So, the next time you feel the urge to seek validation externally, remember the wisdom of Jupiter. Your life is a precious gift meant to be lived authentically. Welcome your true essence, follow your heart's desires, and watch as the universe conspires to support your journey toward fulfillment.
A little secret that brings a touch of magic to my evenings: the Sienna slip. After cozying up in oversized tees for what feels like forever, slips have elevated my frequency; they make me feel so feminine and sexy.
"Lingerie is not about seducing men, it's about embracing womanhood."- Dita Von Teese
It's not about anyone else's gaze; it's about feeling like a Goddess in my own skin.