How To ALWAYS Receive Princess Treatment (Manifesting Edition)
End Your Pick Me Behavior.
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🎀 How To AlWAYS Receive (And Maintain) Princess Treatment 🎀
“To be ourselves causes us to be exiled by many others and yet to comply with what others want causes us to be exiled from ourselves.”
- Clarissa Estes, Women Who Run With the Wolves
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Inspiration for the Soul
“She remembered who she was and the game changed.”
— Lalah Delia
Falling in love with who I am
I don't have time for anything that's gonna harm me
The music of the soul acts as a bridge between our deepest desires and our physical reality. The vibrations and emotions evoked by a song resonate with our intentions, helping us to align energetically with what we desire to attract.
I find myself returning to this beautiful song whenever I need to shed old patterns and welcome new beginnings.
End Your Pick Me Behaviors
I know it’s easier said than done, especially if you’re an anxious attachment girlie, however, using the magic of the universal mind, anything is possible. You might be wondering, “God, I’ve seen what you’ve done for others, when is it my turn?” Well, the key to attracting the "princess treatment" you desire lies in NOT caring when it’s your turn, but understanding the natural dance between masculine and feminine polarity and releasing the anxious habits that might be pushing away the treatment you seek.
‘Pick me’ behavior can feel like a reflex for those anxious attachment styles. You often bend over backward to win everyone’s approval or affection, because of your natural, nurturing nature. I mean, we’re women after all. We love to love, even if it means losing touch with our own needs and desires.
You might find yourself:
Over-accommodating: Constantly adjusting your preferences or plans to match someone else's, hoping to be more likable.
Seeking validation: Continuously looking for reassurance from men to feel secure in yourself.
Suppressing true desires: Ignoring your own wants and needs to avoid conflict or appear more appealing (“keeping the peace”)
Such behaviors stem from a fear of rejection or abandonment and inadvertently create relationships where your true self isn’t fully appreciated or valued — zero princess treatment for you.
Think of a woman who always agrees to her partner’s plans and suppresses her desires, fearing that expressing her preferences might push him away or upset him. Over time, she feels invisible and unfulfilled, and her partner becomes accustomed to not considering her needs, leading to a lack of genuine connection.
This energy completely kills masculine and feminine polarity, which is necessary to activate a man’s [natural] desire to give to you.
To attract the princess treatment, you must put yourself first. Everything jealous women or inadequate men say about you, throw it in the cosmic trash. There exists a cosmic trash can where you can dispose of any beliefs or opinions that don't serve your highest good. We aim for fulfillment, not settling for less.
“Omg that type of thinking is so self-centered”, yeah okay Jimmy, we’re not settling for you.
Nurture your joy, and create space for the masculine to cherish and pursue you.
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Here’s a quick story about a recent 1:1 session I had with a gorgeous girl named Emily. (Yes, she’s totally fine with me sharing this with you). Emily was once the biggest ‘pick me girl’ in every possible way. She always prioritized her man's needs above her own, hoping this would make him appreciate her more. Like many women, she believed that if she cooked the perfect meals or showered him with every bit of her love, he would naturally reciprocate by giving her the world. But instead of receiving the queen treatment she aimed for, Emily just found herself feeling drained and unappreciated. Shocker.
After learning the art of polarity, Emily realized the importance of honoring her own needs and interests first. This wasn't an easy shift — it meant releasing the guilt and shame we've all been programmed to claim. But Emily did the inner work. She rekindled her passion for art, focused on her personal glow-up, and began to prioritize her happiness.
Her boundaries began to clearly communicate her needs and standards, as she radiated a newfound confidence that everyone could feel. Her energy communicated for her. Of course, her boyfriend responded to this energetic shift by showing her more respect, taking the initiative in planning their dates, and truly appreciating her like the Goddess she is.
Emily’s transformation wasn’t just about changing her behavior; it was about remembering her worth and embodying it. Now, princess treatment is her lifestyle.
No longer does she feel the need to compete for attention; instead, it flows to her effortlessly.
This is the vision I hold for women everywhere, and it’s why I’m here today, sharing this message. Wake up, ladies.